Tuesday 5 August 2014

Fear of Failure!


         More people in this world are not suffering from flu,cancer,diabetes etc,but with a disease called "FEAR."Yes,fear has affected a lot of people in this world.We can basically refer as "Fear of a Failure."

          Fear of failure is actually worse than Failure itself.Failure might knock down a person once,but fear of failure keeps knocking down the person everytime he/she thinks about it.Fear of failure helps you get closer to failure and you eventually fail.So you are again knocked down after you fail.
          Fear of failure is so dangerous that you start becoming more and more negative about that particular thing which you are thinking about.Suppose,you are thinking about your exams and you have fear of failure even before exams have started.Then,you will tend to worry more that you might fail and you definitely end up losing a lot of time in it.The time loss,further demotivates you and makes you lose more time reminding you about the time which is already lost.Hence,you lose a hell a lot of time and you eventually fail.Some with fear of failure might pass by putting maximum efforts in the time remaining after the 'Lost time.'
            Hence,Fear of failure is obnoxious  and I suggest/request everyone to get rid of fear of failure.
          There are many ways to get rid of failure:
1. Stop thinking,start doing.Let more time be invested on the plans made and not for "Planning."Planning is an attribute that helps you succeed but only planning and no action will lead to failure.
2. Keep yourself away from negative thoughts and people who speak negative things.How much ever positive you are,negative thoughts from anyone will make you become negative.Mathematical example,positive multiplied with negative is always negative.
3. Start using more 'I can' statements.And never use 'I can't' statements.
4. Meditation helps you have a good control on your mind.Once your mind is in your control,your life is in your control.
         These are some of the ways by which you can become a positive person and get rid of negative feelings like 'Fear of failure.'
           Hope this blog post was or will be helpful to you at some or the other point in your life.Wish you a happy successful future.May you be blessed with growth,prosperity and loads of happiness.
Thank you for reading.

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