Doing Multiple things at a time is possible!

              "You cannot stand on two different boats at the same time."This is what we have learnt or heard from our elders,teachers,well-wishers etc.It's absolutely TRUE but not IMPOSSIBLE.I mean that it's very true for most of the cases and most of the people but it's not impossible.It is possible from those people who have the strength and courage to stand on two different boats and yet manage to be safe enough.

            It's actually true that all of us would have done multiple things at the same time atleast once or more in our life.At the same time,we would have failed at it many times.This 'failure' stays in your mind and you feel that doing multiple things is difficult but remembering/keeping in mind,the times you have succeeded doing multiple things at a time will give you a positive feeling about doing multiple things at the same time.

          Multiple things at the same time,example??               

        Well,I will give some examples that involves doing multiple things at the same time.This will make you realize that,'Yes,I can do or have done multiple things at the same time.'

Example: Speaking to someone over phone while riding bike or driving car.Have you done this??If yes,it shows that you have done multiple things at the same time and succeeded(Provided,that you dint meet up with an accident).Let me explain what all do you do at the same time in the above example.Firstly,you are riding bike.Secondly,you are speaking to someone over phone.Speaking obviously involves concentration and attention.When you are speaking and the other person tells something,you imagine or feel or think or realize and hence you give work to your brain.At the same time,you have to pay attention on the road to be safe and your brain again does the work of paying attention on the road.So,clearly your brain had two works and it could do both of them simultaneously and successfully.

              But what actually happens is your mind doesn't think much about this example and instead thinks of examples in which you would have failed doing two things at the same time.This will lower your confidence or make you develop negative feeling about doing multiple things at the same time.A person who has control over mind and only thinks of examples/events in which he had succeeded doing multiple things at the same time,feels that it's possible to do multiple things at the same time.So,it mainly depends on belief,courage and control over mind.

         I conclude by telling that doing one thing at a time is cool and good but doing multiple things at the same time is definitely possible if you have the belief,courage and control over mind.

Thank you for reading.

Vishwesh Wali from India.

Fear of Failure!

         More people in this world are not suffering from flu,cancer,diabetes etc,but with a disease called "FEAR."Yes,fear has affected a lot of people in this world.We can basically refer as "Fear of a Failure."

          Fear of failure is actually worse than Failure itself.Failure might knock down a person once,but fear of failure keeps knocking down the person everytime he/she thinks about it.Fear of failure helps you get closer to failure and you eventually fail.So you are again knocked down after you fail.

          Fear of failure is so dangerous that you start becoming more and more negative about that particular thing which you are thinking about.Suppose,you are thinking about your exams and you have fear of failure even before exams have started.Then,you will tend to worry more that you might fail and you definitely end up losing a lot of time in it.The time loss,further demotivates you and makes you lose more time reminding you about the time which is already lost.Hence,you lose a hell a lot of time and you eventually fail.Some with fear of failure might pass by putting maximum efforts in the time remaining after the 'Lost time.'

            Hence,Fear of failure is obnoxious  and I suggest/request everyone to get rid of fear of failure.

          There are many ways to get rid of failure:

1. Stop thinking,start doing.Let more time be invested on the plans made and not for "Planning."Planning is an attribute that helps you succeed but only planning and no action will lead to failure.

2. Keep yourself away from negative thoughts and people who speak negative things.How much ever positive you are,negative thoughts from anyone will make you become negative.Mathematical example,positive multiplied with negative is always negative.

3. Start using more 'I can' statements.And never use 'I can't' statements.

4. Meditation helps you have a good control on your mind.Once your mind is in your control,your life is in your control.

         These are some of the ways by which you can become a positive person and get rid of negative feelings like 'Fear of failure.'

           Hope this blog post was or will be helpful to you at some or the other point in your life.Wish you a happy successful future.May you be blessed with growth,prosperity and loads of happiness.

Thank you for reading.

Mindset plays an important role in one's life

            Hello everyone!I feel that one who has a proper mindset,lives his life in the best way possible.And you can have a proper mindset if you have good control over your mind."It's all in the game of mind."

              Just go back to your past and watch carefully,you will definitely realize that your mindset was the reason for your happiness/sadness,Success/Failure etc.I would like to justify my statements with examples.

              For example,take your Studies.You would have passed in your exam with great marks or just passed or failed,just because of your mindset.You would have experienced anyone of the above,if either you had a good control over your mind or if you dint have good control over mind.If you had had a proper mindset that no matter what,you will just concentrate on your studies and not get deviated for any other reason,you would have ended up rocking your exams.If you had not had a proper mindset and no good control over your mind,you would have ended up not concentrating on studies,as you would have got deviated at even the smallest of distractions.

             I would like to share an example which I am experiencing.I have put on a lot of weight and I want to reduce it very badly.But due to lack of proper mindset,I am not able to reduce my weight.I tell myself each day that I won't eat anything which has fat in it,but I end up losing control over my mind and eat something which has fat.Not only that,while sleeping,I make sure that from the next day I will start exercising but again due to lack of mindset,I am not able to do that.

             But it's never too late,I will make sure that I will have a proper mindset regarding losing my weight,right from now.And I would like to tell you all that,even if you are going through such experiences,no need to worry.You can change your mindset from right now and see a better ending."You can't go back to your past and make a new beginning,but you can definitely start today and make a NEW ENDING."

               So I would like to conclude by saying that,it's all in the game of mind."Your mindset has made you what you are and your mindset will make you what you become."

LEARNING NEVER ENDS !!!!

              Learning has no END.Learning ends only with Life i.e., learning ends only when you leave this planet.The way you live your life becomes a learning that wont die at all.I would like to sum up a few brilliant learnings and write this blog post which will help me and will definitely help several others who read this.
1. LEARN,LEARN & LEARN: The first most important learning is Learn,learn and learn.There are infinite lessons to be learnt from each day of your life,irrespective of how you live your life.So become someone who doesn't have EGO and learn from EVERYTHING AND EVERYONE.
2. THERE IS NO SUBSTITUTE FOR HARD WORK : Isn't this true? Is there a substitute for a student to score 90% in all subjects without putting efforts and studying well ? Is there a substitute for a normal person to become a cricketer like Sachin Tendulkar without working hard ? These question in turn gives us an answer that there is no substitute for hard work.
3. LEARN TO GROW : Don't learn just to KNOW but learn to GROW.Its very simple.If you learn from a cricketer how to bat and you wont practice after learning from him,then you are learning just to KNOW and not to GROW.
4. PUT THINGS ON MIND TO PAPER : Don't keep too many things on mind and just put it down to paper.When there are many things on your mind,it will lead to a lot of stress and leaves you messed up.Instead write down the things to be done and any other thing on mind so that will make your mind free to think and come up with solutions for the things on paper.
5. AVOID PRE-ANTICIPATION : We ALL do this a lot of times.Before doing something we anticipate something before doing and end up not doing it.This is not a good thing  to do because our anticipation might turn out to be wrong at times and make us regret for not doing it.
6  GIVE,GIVE & GIVE : Always be a GIVER because what you GIVE is what you GET.For example if you talk rudely to your friends,you will get the same in return.So be someone who GIVES without expecting what he GETS and for sure God will bless you with more than what you gave.
7. TIME IS VERY PRECIOUS :Live each second of your life in doing something productive because Life is just ONCE and you wont get a second chance.MAN IS THE CREATOR OF HIS DESTINY-You are the one who create your destiny.So decide whether you will utilize each second of your life doing something productive and rest later OR Rest now and later end up in a situation where you cannot do anything except REGRETS.
8. STOP THINKING,START DOING :  Many times we end up just thinking and not doing anything.So whenever you start thinking something that it is put into action as soon as possible and not end up just THINKING.Thinking is good but too much thinking is very harmful to you and the people who live with you.So STOP THINKING AND START DOING.Action gives you a lot of confidence.
   "I see I FORGET,I listen I REMEMBER,I do I UNDERSTAND"-So do things rather than just thinking and it will help you understanding things better.
         Readers,hope these learnings will help you PROGRESS atleast 1% in your life than what YOU are NOW.
       

Meditation helps a lot!!

           Meditation is a practice in which an individual trains the mind or induces mode of consciousness,either to realize some benefit or an end in itself.

         Meditation is an essential practice to be done by everyone in order to live a wonderful life.How is meditation helpful??It helps a lot,its a major tool in order to improve our control over mind.And when you control your mind,you actually create your LIFE.There is an amazing quote related to LIFE : "Life is 10% what happens to you and 90% how you react to it."And your reaction is mainly by your mind,so if you have good control on mind you will end up living life in a brilliant and wonderful way.

            My mentor always says "It's all in the game of mind" and I completely believe it because I have experienced it.It's the way you mind thinks,acts or decides that determines your Life and lifestyle.

         Meditation helps a lot.Starting spending few minutes of your busy schedule which can transform your life in a better way than what it is now.ENJOY LIFE ITS ONCE!!

You need to become strong by yourself

                      Yes!!! You need to become strong only by yourself.I don't mean strong in terms of body building or in terms of physical strength but I mean mental strength.There are ways like inspirational books,inspirational speaking but ultimately you are the one who should strengthen your mind telling "Yes I can."I completely agree that someone else can be the reason for your strengthening of mind,but you are the one who will strengthen it.

                 There is a very famous quote "No one can change your life,You yourself have to do it for for You."So some can make you realize that your strength is not only this much but it is much more and you will be the one who will realize and strengthen yourself.What do I mean by strengthening??Changing your negative attitudes to positives.Replacing 'I cant' by 'I can' and 'I will.'

               So in order to realize that you are not doing what you are capable of,then read motivational books,inspirational magazines and listen to inspirational speeches.After realizing your mind will do the rest.And you will be strengthened.So keep yourself motivated by being with inspirational people,reading inspirational magazines etc.

               iuemag.com,this is an inspirational magazine.I would suggest my readers to go through this and I can assure you that you will be inspired.Strengthen yourself,realize that you have the potential to do more than whatever you are doing now.

Wake up your mind each day

                 It so happens that each day we wake up but we usually don't wake up our mind each day.What do I mean by waking up your mind is Self realization of various things in and around you.Self realization of things in you means your character.Try to make your character better each day.Self realization of things around you can be plenty but commonly study related for students and Work for others.What to realize in that??? Realize how well are you in it,how can you improve,how can you save time by planning out everything properly.Do this each day and thus I refer it as waking up mind each day.

               If you don't wake up your mind each day you will be someone who is least preferred by the world because you are not progressing or thinking and realizing in anyway.If at all you realize about various things each day and progress well,it is obvious that the world will prefer you first.Make it a continuous process to keep correcting yourself each day.

             I agree that it is a very competitive world now but I don't believe in competing with others.Compete with yourself that will make you a WINNER.Make sure that you are always atleast a 0.1% better than what you ere yesterday.This will always make you progress and become a WINNER.If you compete with others you will end whatever you are doing after you beat the one with whom you are competing.If you are competing with yourself each day then there won't be an end because each day YOU NEED TO BE BETTER THAN YESTERDAY.

                   So readers make sure that you will wake up your mind each day and progress well in your lives.
         "COMPETE WITH YOURSELF FOLKS...YOU WILL BE A WINNER."

Keep doing different things when your mind is DISTURBED

                    It's very common that our mind gets disturbed due to some or the other reason but how frequently it happens depends on your control on your MIND.You need to be very strong in controlling your mind if you don't want your mind to get disturbed by thinking something which is unnecessary.However if you don't have good control you will end up being someone who is always sad,less active etc.One good solution is atleast be surrounded by positive people so your mind tunes up to positives more.
                  What to do when MIND is disturbed??Simple answer is WORK.It can be any kind of work even playing,do something or the other instead of sitting simply.By sitting simply you will let your mind to think about the thought which disturbed you and it will disturb even more.So there won't be an end to it.If you are good at recovering then your mind might be alright by the next day or it might even prolong if you just sit simply.Instead if you WORK or do something other than simply sitting and thinking about what has happened,you will end up thinking about the work so much that you will forget what had happened and your MIND will no more be disturbed.

                "Use of mental energy which does not help you achieve your goals is a WASTE"-From this quote I mean that wasting time about thinking something which won't help in any way to achieve your goals is a complete WASTE of energy and time.So keep this quote in mind and ROCK your Lives.

Make Up your mind if you want to do something!!

                      "Its all in the game of MIND"-This is a very common saying from my mentor Sujit Lalwani Sir.And I completely agree that its all in game of mind.Isn't it ??? Don't you think whatever you do,whatever you feel,all these depends on your mind.We very often listen to our mind than heart.Just make up your mind in order to do anything and everything.
                If you want to be a topper of your class,make up your mind and make use of each second properly and focus properly.If you want to become a cricketer,make up your mind that it will be only Cricket on your mind until you become a cricketer.If you are indoor you will be watching some cricket match or browsing about amazing cricketers,if you are outdoor then it will be just because you will be playing cricket and when you are so involved,no one can stop you from becoming a cricketer.
                I chose this topic because I want to make up my mind for an important thing today.It is to lose weight,I have put on a lot of weight and I want to reduce it.There is just one life and I don't to live it by being someone who is obese and not fit.I have taken a target of December 3 2013,by which I will reduce 7 kilos of my weight(my weight is 88 kilos now)but Each day I get tempted to eat some or the other food which contains fat and I just convince myself telling that I won't consume fat items from the next day.So I want to end that postponing attitude and make a commitment to myself that I won't be consuming fat containing food items from now on and will for sure exercise regularly.
            "I have made up my MIND,no one can stop me now."