Procrastination feels good only for NOW!

               One major thing or attribute in people that leads to failure is 'Procrastination.'Procrastination is the act of delaying or postponing something.I am very sure that all of us would have experienced the negative effects of procrastination.

                  Procrastination feels good only for NOW!Why do we procrastinate something???Definitely because we are not interested in doing that particular thing at that point of time and may or may not be interested in doing something else.For example,Imagine you have your exams next week and obviously you got to prepare for it.You will start today but end it in few minutes due to lack of interest and you will plan to do it the next day.The most common thing that comes to ming is,'I have 6 more days and I can study or prepare well from tomorrow.'This is really a very bad practice.You might feel that you have time left but you are just piling up more work by procrastinating it.You procrastinate thinking that you have 6 more days,then again thinking that you have 5 more days and so on.Finally,on the eve of exam or two days before exam,you find yourself stressed up and scared about the exams.This could have been avoided if you were serious from the first day itself and not procrastinated it till the last.

             One more disadvantage of procrastination is you don't know what is coming your way tomorrow.Considering the above example,you might have procrastinated thinking that you have 6 more days.What if something unexpected happens and you end up in a situation wherin you cant even touch your books for the next 5 days.So,you will have only one day left and all that you will do is break your head,don't eat properly,get tensed and many such negatives.Suppose,you had not procrastinated and studied to the best of your capability on the first day itself and missed 5 days because of unexpected situation,you can Atleast be a bit tension-free because you would have studied something already.Since you had studied to the best of your capability on the first day,though you can't touch books for the next 5 days,you can atleast recapitulate what you have studied and atleast become Perfect in that.

              So,isn't it true that 'Procrastination feels good only for NOW.'You postponed your studying thinking you have time left to prepare for it and basically you had no interest to study at that time.When you closed your books and got up from the study table,you felt good because you have procrastinated studying and do something else that interests you.But ultimately you made more works to pile up as you procrastinated on the other days also.And this definitely leads to tension,irritation,frustration,sadness etc.Hence,procrastination feels good only for NOW but makes you feel very bad LATER.

           I was about to procrastinate writing today's blogpost because I was feeling a bit sleepy.However I was not so tired that I can't even sit for few minutes.From my experience of procrastination,I felt it won't be good if I postpone it because I will definitely get a few more works and finally many things get piled up.Eventually,I will lose interest in doing by looking at the number of works pending.Hence,I thought I will have to complete this at any cost and then sleep.Here it is,I have completed my blogpost to the best of my ability.In contrast,if I had procrastinated today I would have procrastinated the next day also and moreover more works will keep coming my way and they will get piled up.This will make me lose interest because it automatically gets stored in the subconscious mind that 'You have a lot of work.'

           I truly understood the benefit of not procrastinating.I can be happy that I completed a blogpost,i can be happy that I have finished the work already and I can be free of it.

Hence,stop procrastinating.It feels good only for NOW.

Thank you for reading.

Vishwesh Wali from India. 

It is a good practice to play 'brain training' Games.

                            The word "Games" easily brings smile on anyone's face.Before playing games in computer and play station was a trend.Nowadays technology has developed and everyone have Smartphones,right from children to elderly person.Playing games in Mobile is a trend now.I definitely admit that I am an addict and lover of games,irrespective of whatever device it is.Well,let me share about POSITIVES of games which I have been experiencing and would like even you to experience it.

                 "Anything in excess is poison" and playing games excessively is also definitely harmful.Especially,small children get addicted to playing games in computer,mobile etc which are harmful.However,playing outdoor games cause no harm and infact are very good for health and fitness.Play all kind of games but for a limited time.If you want to play games for a long time,then i have a solution.

              The SOLUTION is play games that help in training your brain,that challenges your brain,that helps in building your vocabulary.And playing such games does not need any limit and you can play for howmuch ever time you want.These games are very much beneficial as they help in exercising your brain and thus making your brain strong.It helps you in focusing well,concentration,thinking effectively and so on.

           Today's generation is addicted to smart phones and hence i recommend to develop a habit of playing games in smartphones that help in training your brain.Why so??Very simple,when you play games that help in training your brain and especially in smartphones(to which you are addicted),you get addicted to it and you tend to play more.Eventually,playing more of such games helps in training your brain and thus improving YOURSELF.The most amazing apps/games that i have got addicted to is Lumosity,Elevate,Speed reading.I use my mobile for calling someone,messaging and listening to music.Whenver i use my phone for a purpose other than what i have mentioned,will be for playing games that helps in exercising my brain.And the most amazing part when you download such games is that you get notifications,which will remind you that you have to exercise your brain.I just love it and hope you are also loving the idea!

             However i don't mean that you have to leave everything and just play such games.First priority must be your WORK and then whenever you spend time for games,invest that time in playing games that help in developing or strengthening your brain.

Thank you for reading.
Vishwesh Wali from India.
 

Keep GROWING in every aspect of your Life!

           Hello everyone!I am feeling happy and grateful for whatever I have and whatever I am today.I feel blessed to have my lovely parents as they are the reason for whatever I am.

          WHAT IS GROWTH??

Growth is definitely an increase or development of something.The wonderful thing about Life is Growth.Normally,an individual's body grows till the age of 21 or 18 depending whether a boy or a girl respectively.But I believe and extremely feel that there is no age limit or any kind of limit to the growth of mental aspects such as thinking,decision making,proving,convincing and so on.You keep learning a lot of lessons from your life and you keep growing as a person.The person who consistently grows is the one who is living his/her life to the fullest.

WHY IS GROWTH ESSENTIAL?

By Growth I clearly mean the growth in the way of thinking,way of prospecting things and way of handling situations in life etc.Why is it essential?It is essential because only when you GROW you KNOW what have you improved in and what was your weakness.Growth takes you to a different level and Growth is what keeps you interested in life.Won't you feel bugged up if you keep studying only in the first standard throughout your study life???You need growth in your standard of studying,you grow as a person everytime you pass to a next level or next standard.Growth is what develops you from a baby to a matured Man,growth in both physical and mental aspects.Will you be interested in life if you are having the same routine throughout your life or will you be interested if you have regular change in routine?it's obvious that you enjoy regular change in routine.At the same time,will you be happy if you are in the same level throughout your life or if you keep progressing? Definitely!All of you would agree that you will be happy if you keep progressing-It can be marks when you are students,salary when you are working,happiness when you are doing something beneficial to the society and so on.A person can survive in life if he doesn't grow and remains at the same level throughout his life but a person definitely LIVES his life when he GROWS as a person both in physical and mental aspects.

        Hence,I feel that GROWTH is very much essential.

Be better than what you were yesterday.Keep GROWING in every possible aspect of your life!Only when you grow you will know more about you and your life.

Thank you for reading!

Vishwesh wali from India.

Fear of Failure!

         More people in this world are not suffering from flu,cancer,diabetes etc,but with a disease called "FEAR."Yes,fear has affected a lot of people in this world.We can basically refer as "Fear of a Failure."

          Fear of failure is actually worse than Failure itself.Failure might knock down a person once,but fear of failure keeps knocking down the person everytime he/she thinks about it.Fear of failure helps you get closer to failure and you eventually fail.So you are again knocked down after you fail.

          Fear of failure is so dangerous that you start becoming more and more negative about that particular thing which you are thinking about.Suppose,you are thinking about your exams and you have fear of failure even before exams have started.Then,you will tend to worry more that you might fail and you definitely end up losing a lot of time in it.The time loss,further demotivates you and makes you lose more time reminding you about the time which is already lost.Hence,you lose a hell a lot of time and you eventually fail.Some with fear of failure might pass by putting maximum efforts in the time remaining after the 'Lost time.'

            Hence,Fear of failure is obnoxious  and I suggest/request everyone to get rid of fear of failure.

          There are many ways to get rid of failure:

1. Stop thinking,start doing.Let more time be invested on the plans made and not for "Planning."Planning is an attribute that helps you succeed but only planning and no action will lead to failure.

2. Keep yourself away from negative thoughts and people who speak negative things.How much ever positive you are,negative thoughts from anyone will make you become negative.Mathematical example,positive multiplied with negative is always negative.

3. Start using more 'I can' statements.And never use 'I can't' statements.

4. Meditation helps you have a good control on your mind.Once your mind is in your control,your life is in your control.

         These are some of the ways by which you can become a positive person and get rid of negative feelings like 'Fear of failure.'

           Hope this blog post was or will be helpful to you at some or the other point in your life.Wish you a happy successful future.May you be blessed with growth,prosperity and loads of happiness.

Thank you for reading.

The Secret to Money!!!

            Hello Everyone!!'Money' is something which everyone wants to survive,to enjoy and to live life happily.I would like to share some amazing points that will help you in getting/earning a lot of money.

Follow these and you can be sure of having a huge bank balance :

1. To attract money,focus on wealth.It is impossible to bring more money into your life when you focus on lack of it.

2. It is helpful to use your imagination and make-believe you already have the money you want.Play games of having wealth and you will feel better about money;as you feel better about it,more will flow into your life.

3. Feeling happy now is the fastest way to bring money in your life.

4. Make it your intention to look at everything you like and say yourself,"I can afford that,I can buy that."You will shift your thinking and begin to feel better about money.

5. Give money in order to bring more into your life.When you are generous about money and feel good about sharing it,you are saying,"I have PLENTY."

6. Visualize checks in the mail.

7. Tip the balance of your thoughts to wealth.Think wealth.

'Nothing' also has existence in this world

                    Yes!!Even 'Nothing' has existence in this world.We often end up doing 'Nothing'.Nothing cannot be specifies,its just not doing anything or it just doesn't have anything.In mathematics subject we would have studied about empty set or null set.It means that the particular set does not contain any element.Similarly in our lives there are a lot of times wherein 'Nothing' has an existence.When some friend asks what are you doing??Our reply will be Nothing sometimes.So even that has existence.

              I chose this as the topic to write my today's blog for a simple reason that while thinking of what to write I just got 'Nothing'.The world is so large that I will have n-number of topics to write and even my entire life won't be enough to write them.But when I was about to start writing this blog post I just got Nothing in my mind and hence chose that has the topic.

                This blog is not much informative but its the thinking of mine which made me think this way.So I would like to suggest my readers to stop wasting time in thinking something unnecessary and instead think something different and ultimately become SOMEONE different.

Keep doing different things when your mind is DISTURBED

                    It's very common that our mind gets disturbed due to some or the other reason but how frequently it happens depends on your control on your MIND.You need to be very strong in controlling your mind if you don't want your mind to get disturbed by thinking something which is unnecessary.However if you don't have good control you will end up being someone who is always sad,less active etc.One good solution is atleast be surrounded by positive people so your mind tunes up to positives more.
                  What to do when MIND is disturbed??Simple answer is WORK.It can be any kind of work even playing,do something or the other instead of sitting simply.By sitting simply you will let your mind to think about the thought which disturbed you and it will disturb even more.So there won't be an end to it.If you are good at recovering then your mind might be alright by the next day or it might even prolong if you just sit simply.Instead if you WORK or do something other than simply sitting and thinking about what has happened,you will end up thinking about the work so much that you will forget what had happened and your MIND will no more be disturbed.

                "Use of mental energy which does not help you achieve your goals is a WASTE"-From this quote I mean that wasting time about thinking something which won't help in any way to achieve your goals is a complete WASTE of energy and time.So keep this quote in mind and ROCK your Lives.