DONT BE DEPENDENT ALWAYS!!

                   I always feel that we should not be dependent on others for anything.Being dependent is nothing but relying on someone or the other always.I learnt not to be dependent from my father,who is never dependent on anyone and he doesnt expect anything from his own parents except love and care.My father is my role model from my childhood.My mother inspires me through her hard work and thinking capability inspite of fact that she is not educated.

                Example of being dependent in nature is parasitism,where organisms called parasites benefits at the expense of the other,the host.People who are dependent can do nothing when the dependence fails.Being dependent makes you give reasons all the time.When you are dependent always,it means you are not ready to take up complete responsibility of the work.

parasitic plant

              I have seen many people who are always dependent on others.Children should be dependent on parents as longs as they are young in age and studying.But as time goes by,they should realise that they have to stand on their own legs,take up responsibilties and start leading life without dependence.If they are dependent,they have no other option than to depend.It will be like as long as parents can afford them for living,they are good.When parents cant,children who are dependent have no hopes for the rest of their life.It will lead to lot of problems and only regrets after that.This was just an example of family.

                Another common example which I would like to state is of students as I am a student.Its very often that students end up telling that the teacher dint teach properly or teacher dint complete the portions,as a result performance in exam was not good.This is called being dependent on teachers always,which is not good.Its not that we should not depend on teachers,we should be dependent as long as its having a positive impact.If the teacher is not teaching properly,the solution is there are something called textbooks and lots of websites which gives unlimited knowledge.And its not that there is only one teacher in the entire world for a particular subject,there are many and you just need to recognise them and learn.

              "Dont be dependent,live life without dependence wherin you blame yourself when you fail and reward yourself when you succeed."